FMP 87: The Lie
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra share how lying breaks down family unity. Listen in as they share some tips for making honesty a value in your home. To share your story with them, send an email to info@familymeeting.org or call 904-257-3062 to ask your questions and receive a reply on a future episode.FMP 86: The Stew
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about learning to value the long term instead of the immediate. We need to be looking for ways to build up and encourage each other, not take advantage of one another. To share your episode ideas, send an email to info@familymeeting.org or call 904-257-3062 to ask your questions and receive a reply on a future episode.FMP 85: The Favorite
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about the dangers of favoritism in your home. We need to work to develop collaboration, not competition. To share your episode ideas, send an email to info@familymeeting.orgFMP 84: Can You Hear The Music?
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra share their guidelines for music in their home and encourage you to develop your own. Music is a powerful tool, and you should have a plan for how you use it. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 83: Is It Too Late To Say Sorry?
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra need to say they're sorry! Apologizing is an important part of every relationship, but can be so hard for some people to do. Listen in as they share some of the reasons that people don't want to say, "I'm sorry." To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 82: Violet Interview
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra interview their youngest daughter, Violet. Violet talks about some of her favorite family memories, and how she doesn't let things that she can't control ruin her day. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 81: Can I Get A Thank You? Part 2
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra get honest about feeling unappreciated in marriage. Listen in to find out if you are underappreciated and what to do about it if you are. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 80: Can I Get A Thank You?
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra get honest about feeling unappreciated in marriage. Listen in to find out if you are underappreciated and what to do about it if you are. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 79: Can't We All Just Get Along? Part 2
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about what they have done to develop the sibling relationships of their daughters. Listen in to get ideas to help your kids get along with each other. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 78: Can't We All Just Get Along?
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about what they have done to develop the sibling relationships of their daughters. Listen in to get ideas to help your kids get along with each other. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 77: Those Pastor's Kids
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra get specific on what it means to raise children in a pastor's home. Every home has its unique challenges and your pastor is no different. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 76: Spontaneous Combustion
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about breaking out of your routine by doing something spontaneous. If you are a planner then being spontaneous can be difficult. Listen in as they share some tips for spontaneity. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 75: Looking Back At 2021
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra review the last year of their lives. God has brought all of us through a lot this last year, He wants to use those things for our growth. As you listen in, think about what God has done in your life this year. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 74: Holiday Pressure
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra dive into holiday stress. The holidays are often filled with a lot of pressure! That pressure often comes from family relationships. Listen in and learn how communication and healthy boundaries can relieve that pressure. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 73: The Reason For The Season
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra chat about Christmas. This time of year is so busy! There are so many events, activities, and traditions to be a part of that often the focus of Christmas isn't what it should be. Listen in for some ideas on how to keep Christ at the center of it all. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 72: Your Kids And Social Media
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra dive into the world of social media for your kids. Social media is a big part of our world today. Have you thought about how you are going to guide your children into it? Listen in as they share some of the guidelines that they have for their kids. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 71: Won't You Be My Neighbor?
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra share ideas for loving your neighbors. Often times, the people that live the closest to us are total strangers to us. It is rare for people to even know their neighbors' names anymore and that needs to change! Listen in for some ideas of how to get to know your neighbors. To share your ideas for reaching your neighbors, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 70: Good Grief
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra discuss helping your spouse in the grieving process. Losing a parent or grandparent is difficult. Listen in as they share some of their losses and how they have helped each other through them. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 69: A Thankful Family
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra get into the holiday spirit by talking about thankfulness. Thankfulness is an attitude that has to be taught, but how can we pass gratitude on to our children? Listen in as they share their experiences as children and share what they have done with their children. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 68: Abigail Interview
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra interview their third oldest daughter, Abigail. Abigail shares some of her favorite memories as well as some of her fears, and how she was able to overcome them with some help from her parents. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 67: The Problem With Porn
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about the problem with pornography. Porn has become such a problem not just in society today, but also in the church. It is a strong addiction, but Jesus can set you free from it. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 66: Pastor Appreciation
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about Pastor Appreciation month. You have the ability to be such an encouragement to your pastors and their families. Listen in as Thomas and Lysandra share some ideas for how you can bless your pastors. To share your ideas send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 65: Meet Mrs. Wrong
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra describe what Mrs. Wrong looks like. If you see these warning signs, it's time to take some serious actions, because ignoring them can have life-long repercussions. To share your story with them, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 64: Meet Mr. Wrong
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra describe what Mr. Wrong looks like. If you see these warning signs, it's time to take some serious actions, because ignoring them can have life-long repercussions. To share your story with them, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 63: Parenting Burn Out
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra provide some encouragement for all of the worn out parents out there. Parenting is exhausting, but what do you do if you are just sick of it altogether? Listen in to find out the signs of parenting burnout and the steps to recover from it. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 62: Isn't It Romantic?
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra dive into the world of romance. In a lot of relationships romance dies out pretty early, but it shouldn't. Listen in as Thomas and Lysandra give some very specific ways that you can bring romance back into your relationship. To share your episode, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 61: Ask Us Anything
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra answer your questions on a variety of topics. Questions range from disciplining your children to who inspires you today. To ask your questions for a future Ask Us Anything episode, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 60: Work It Out
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra focus on instilling a strong work ethic into your children. Teaching your children to work hard can be challenging, but it will give them a head start on whatever they want to do in life. To ask your questions, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 59: Isabella Interview
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra interview their second oldest daughter, Isabella. Isabella shares her favorite memories and the mistakes that Thomas and Lysandra have made as parents. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 58: Navigating Transitions
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about the major transition that they are currently in. Transitions bring stress and uncertainty and they will share some of the things that they are dealing with in hopes of helping others with their own transitions. To share your transition tips, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 57: Year One
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra go back and discuss the problems that they faced in their first year of marriage. Year one is often the most difficult year of marriage, but there are so many valuable lessons that can be learned from it. To share your year one marriage struggles, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 56: Too Much Stuff
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about what to do with all of that stuff that you have just lying around. And where did it all come from anyway? For some people getting rid of stuff is a real difficult task, listen in as they share some ideas for decluttering your space. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 55: Kathryne Interview
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra interview their oldest daughter, Kathryne. Kathryne shares her thoughts on how to develop a closer relationship with your teen, and opens up about a situation that her parents helped her navigate. To share your episode ideas, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 54: Sheltered
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra answer the question, "How sheltered is too sheltered?" As parents, it is our responsibility to protect our children, but we also need to teach them how to navigate the world that they live in. To share your advice on "How sheltered is too sheltered?", send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 53: Friends
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra explore friendship. We were created to have meaningful relationships, but we need to learn to have a proper balance on the friends that we have and the time that we spend with them. To share your advice on friendships, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 52: Everyone's A Critic
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about the right way to deal with criticism. It seems like everyone has an opinion on how you ought to live your life. You will face criticism, and it is important to know how to handle it correctly. To invite Thomas and Lysandra to speak at your next event, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 51: Love Story
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra share their love story. Your love story is a powerful tool to teach people about God's love for us. To share your love story with us, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 50: Spiritual Mentoring
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra conclude a 4-part series on parenting teens. Today's episode explains the importance of spiritually mentoring your teen. To share your parenting tips, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 49: Communication Is King
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra continue a 4-part series on parenting teens. Today's episode looks at how you can keep the lines of communication open between you and your teen. To share your parenting tips, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 48: Building Trust
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra continue a 4-part series on parenting teens. Today's episode explores building trust between you and your teen. To share your parenting tips, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 47: You Were Made For This
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra start a 4-part series on parenting teens. They start the series by focusing on the fact that you were made to parent your teen. To share your parenting tips, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 46: Family Vacation
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about hitting the road with your family. We only have a limited amount of time to make memories with our children, and family vacations are a great way to do that while building a lasting bond with them. To share your episode ideas send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 45: Money Talks
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra share the importance of couples being on the same page financially. We need to have a plan for what we do with our money, otherwise we will be left wondering where it went. To ask your financial questions send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 44: Spiritual Leadership
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about spiritual leadership in the home. When husbands and wives don't see eye to eye on who will lead their home spiritually, it can create discontentment and friction in the relationship. Listen in as they share how to get on the same page spiritually. To ask your questions send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 43: Blending Families Part 2
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra explore the subject of blended families. Bringing people together from different family backgrounds to form a new family unit can be difficult at times, but it is possible to build a healthy happy home. To share your tips and stories of blending families send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 42: Blending Families
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra explore the subject of blended families. Bringing people together from different family backgrounds to form a new family unit can be difficult at times, but it is possible to build a healthy happy home. To share your tips and stories of blending families send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 41: Keeping Up With The Joneses
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about the allure of materialism. If we aren't careful, then we will begin to live our lives for things, and we will teach our children to do the same. Listen in as they share some strategies for dealing with the desire of wanting more. To share your episode ideas send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 40: Family Day
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about why family day is so important to them. They also share some of their favorite family day ideas. To ask your questions or share your family day ideas with them, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 39: Recovering From An Affair Part 2
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra share a listener's story about her affair and how they are working through it. An affair doesn't have to be the end of your relationship, but it will take a lot of commitment to work through it. To ask your questions or share your story with them, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 38: Recovering From An Affair
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra share a listener's story about her affair and how they are working through it. An affair doesn't have to be the end of your relationship, but it will take a lot of commitment to work through it. To ask your questions or share your story with them, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 37: Dealing With Disruptions
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra talk about how their lives were recently turned upside down. Life doesn't always go according to plan, and how you respond in those moments can make all the difference. To ask your questions or share your story with them, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comFMP 36: Mentoring Your Kids
In this episode, Thomas and Lysandra share their strategy for discipling their children. Too many parents are passing the responsibility of the spiritual formation of their kids on to their church and school, or worse yet they aren't thinking about it at all. As parents, we should be the greatest influence on our children. This task is too important to give to someone else. To ask your questions or share your advice on mentoring, send an email to podcast@thomasosterkamp.comYou can find the spiritual mentoring curriculum mentioned in this episode at http://gnbc.church/3G.html